jodoh? :)

if a friend ask me this...

"should i break up with him?
i still love him but he didn't love me like i did"

i can't say YES you should.

i give her options :)

first : slow talk with ur other half. try. make sure you're being honest. and be ready for any circumstances that might arise. worst case scenario? he dump you. if and only if he do that, it doesn't mean u did a wrong thing, it is proven that u did a correct thing. why should you be with the one who doesn't even care about you? who doesn't even want to accept his own fault? remember, no one is perfect right? each and everyone of us especially who are in a relationship, should always accept his/her other half with all his/her heart. buttt, if he did accept his faults, understand why you did that, he will say sorry, try to change, and everything will be okey  :) and i am sure that, male is different than female. lelaki? walau aku perempuan, aku kenal mereka. haha. lelaki bukan macam perempuan. they rather keep their feeling to themselves than make it such a big deal. they do cry coz they do have feelings but they will not show to anyone. and trust me, lelaki sebenarnya lebih sensitif dalam certain things which i don't know what. but still, they are different. :) mungkin perlu khidmat nasihat lelaki kalau berkaitan perkara ini. haha. well, it's up to you then :) you know him well? then it's not your fault anymore. if he does not want to change, up to him. don't suffer yourself just because of your love :)

second: dump him. easy. :) if he's the one, then he will be the one. sooner or later :) what you get? hati yang tenang tanpa perlu risau. kan? :)

yes i know it's hard. very hard. complicated. but if only you think ahead, think about your future then you will not have problem. it's hard to forget someone who gives so much to you right? i understand that :) i'm on your shoes, i know how does it feels like. it hurts to let go someone you love and care more than everything. but remember, Allah is with us. everyday. each seconds! He never leave you. right? :)

He has PLANS. plans that we never know what and when. just, think positive, think that Allah has plans. He will not leave us crying over something we shouldn't. right? 

as usual, telling people to do this is easy, but to do it by ourselves? i know it's hard because i did feel how you feel. i tried to let go, and i tried hard to forget and failed but still i tried without giving up, inshaaAllah everything will be okey. trust me. once you put your trust on Him, He will not upset you. coz He never do one on me :)

to fall in love is not easy, for me. depend on people. but seriously for me, it's hard. maybe because of all the things i went through made me realized love is something that unchangeable, hard to find the real one, and i am sure once you find the right one, you will never have problems with it :) and the right one is there, anywhere, somewhere, someone you don't know who. just, wait patiently for the right time and right person to come. lambat atau cepat, jangan persoalkan. if Allah thinks you're ready to hold the responsibility, i am sure He will give you your happiness. :)

i am very sorry if my thoughts and advice are not up to your expectations. well, i'm not expertise in phsyc though :P eventhough sometimes i feel like i'm better in giving advice rather that studying engineering. har har har. ohhh still i love engineering XD

bukan cakap berdasarkan pengalaman sendiri sahaja, tetapi berdasarkan pengalaman orang lain serta bacaan2 di ntah mana2. :) aku pun dah single almost 2 years. hakhakhak. so, i learnt from others more and i always try to help my friend with anything, hoping that it can relieve some of their burdens :)

hope this can help any of you reading these craps :P

dan ingat, setiap makhluk Allah didunia ini punya masalah masing2. cuma kita kuat atau tidak untuk hadapi semua itu, terpulang kepada diri kita sendiri :) jika anda rebah, jangan lupa bangkit kembali :)

that's all for todayyy XD

till then~

p/s: day 3 : helping my moms with her kitchen, makan tido makan tido. hwargh~

p/s/s: it's hard, but i still try. you should :)

p/s/s/s: jodoh, maut, rezeki semua di tangan Tuhan. ingat jak ya k :)

p/s/s/s/s: aku bukan la wanita solehah dambaan laki soleh laki perfect laki watsoever out there, but still im trying to be someone who my husband-to-be will love, favor and care forever :) tidak perlu perubahan drastik, cukup sekadar berubah dalam hati sbb kelak ia akan keluar sendiri. :)

p/s/s/s/s/s: everything above is just....spontan? hahaha. ndak tauk sine aku blaja bleh ckp gia -.- byk glk pk mslh org and pk bkn2. haha~